我又搞砸了对吧

其实我更怕有一天你会说

你也不想努力了

for myself. and for you.

if you don't know the values and rules of the people with whom you share a relationship, you should prepare for pain.

in reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.

make your relationships one of the highest priorities in your life.

find our what is the most important thing to you and  your partner in your relationship. what are your highest values in a relationship together.

in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right.
in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right.
in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right.

repeat this several times so that i can remember, in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right. after all, that is the only reason i can use to keep myself going. to keep trying and trying. to not give up when i think it is not right although i am in love. 

yes, keep trying. 


kaiwei

学会爱，超越爱

书说，男生要学会爱，女生要超越爱。说得好啊，可是要真正改进时却发现原来好难。别人都会因时间和经历而变得更懂得如何去爱，为什么唯独我，不进反而似乎不停地往后退呢...

郁闷。
没办法，只能继续努力呗。

why am i always the one who is not understanding enough.

说不出没关系

原来
对你来说
我依然是那么的微不足道

虽然不想刻意比较
可是依然不禁发现
为什么
你的时间永远只得空留给他们

对我
多年来
都有很多我不能理解也不能辩解的理由
说你不得空

一直以为
这么多年了
我至少在你心中还是重要的
你至少对我还是有一定程度的了解

今天发现
原来事实并非如此

这一次
我可以像从前的每一次一样
都说没关系吗？
我想
我说服不到自己
再一次对你说出这说不出的没关系

微 :(