for myself. and for you.

if you don't know the values and rules of the people with whom you share a relationship, you should prepare for pain.

in reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.

make your relationships one of the highest priorities in your life.

find our what is the most important thing to you and  your partner in your relationship. what are your highest values in a relationship together.

in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right.
in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right.
in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right.

repeat this several times so that i can remember, in a relationship, it is more important to be in love than to be right. after all, that is the only reason i can use to keep myself going. to keep trying and trying. to not give up when i think it is not right although i am in love. 

yes, keep trying. 


kaiwei